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Having high standards or striving for excellence is a good thing as it show a desire to grow and develop your character. It can also push you to reach your peak level of performance. Perfectionism, on the other hand, is setting a standard that are so high that they either cannot be met, or can be met at a great cost, even destructive cost. The underline belief under perfectionism that anything short of perfection is terrible and a failure, and that even minor imperfections will lead to negative consequences.
spiral2grow, a leading provider in self esteem and self confidence counseling in New York City, has professionals that include perfectionism psychotherapists and counselors, who are expert in overcoming perfectionism and improving self esteem and effectiveness. spiral2grow, located in midtown Manhattan at 260 Madison Avenue #8023, New York, NY 10016, offers techniques to overcome perfectionism, build effectiveness and take actions despite fear in a variety of formats: Personal Counseling, self esteem – perfectionism group and self esteem-perfectionism workshop.
Perfectionism is one of the most common symptoms of low self esteem and confidence. Perfectionism can destructively chip away at your healthy self-esteem. There is a definite relationship between the need to be perfect and low self-esteem. People who “need” to look at themselves and expect nothing less than perfection with everything they do, are setting themselves up for self-sabotage.
Abraham Maslow in his book “ Motivation and Personality wrote: “There are no perfect human beings! Persons can be found who are good, very good indeed, in fact, great. There do in fact exist creators, seers, sages, saints, shakers, and movers… even if they are uncommon and do not come by the dozen. And yet these very same people can at times be boring, irritating, petulant, selfish, angry, or depressed. To avoid disillusionment with human nature, we must first give up our illusions about it.”