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Marriage Help New York City

spiral2grow, a leading marriage counseling and couples therapy center in New York City, NYC, has marriage counselors and marriage therapists, who are helping and building successful marriages as well as saving marriages in crisis. spiral2grow, located in midtown Manhattan at 260 Madison #8023, New York, NY 10016, offers proven marriage counseling and couples therapy in a variety of formats: individual marital counseling, couples counseling, saving your marriage classes and saving marriage workshops.

While there are some couples who do experience profound marital satisfaction with little if any serious conflict along the way, for the majority of couples things happens. For multiple reasons, if the problems of marriage are ignored and not dealt with, or when one partner intimidates the other into backing down or shutting up, a tremendous rift between partners is created and the marriage reach a danger zone.

Many married couples experience major disappointments, arguments, family difficulties and realize that their marriage is in distress. When a marriage is on the rocks or when couples are working their way back from a near-divorce, they are faced with the ultimate challenge. Re-establishing commitment, trust and infusing the partnership with love and care takes introspection, compassion, forgiveness, patience and effort.

It is ,also, important to be present in the relationship, not only physically but also mentally. Pay attention to your partner, there will always be something new to learn about him/her. Once you realize what things your partner longs for, you will build a deeper connection and leaving the marriage or engaging in adultery will be the last thing that would  enter his/her mind.

Couples who would like to save their marriage should consider marriage therapy. Yet, it is important to note that you don’t have to wait for a relationship to deteriorate. The sooner you arrive to counseling, the greater is the benefit and the better the success.

  • Save My Marriage – Marriage Help Overview
    • If you feel your marriage is failing, if you are facing marital crisis or challenge, it is critical that you start the process of saving your marriage now. . . before things spiral into a place that is truly irreparable. If you do not take action, the negative momentum of the relationship moves against you and before you know it, the relationship is too far gone.The failure of a marriage is never due to one specific thing, but a culmination of things which are at first ignored until the situation becomes untenable. No marriage crisis appears overnight. Rather, the crisis builds slowly over time. This is why the sooner you seek help from a professional marriage therapist, the better you will be prepared to move forward and begin the healing and progress. Remember, it is never too late to save your marriage to start creating the marriage of your dreams, yet seeking marriage help soon is critical.Forgiveness, change, rebuilding trust and seeking help are key to saving your marriage. This is why you need marriage counselor to teach exactly what you need to know. Don’t wait for your marriage to get divorced. Don’t wait for your dreams and hopes that you both had for this relationship to die if you want to save your marriage.
  • When Should You Seek Marriage Help?
    • The followings are few examples when marriage counseling can be helpful:
    • Repeated negative interaction that creates distance and distrust in the relationship
    • Diminished or nonexistent affection and/or sexual desire
    • Feelings of loneliness or alienation in the relationship
    • Betrayal or breach of trust in the relationship
    • Addictive behaviors; for example drugs, alcohol, pornography, gambling
    • Lack of connection or intimacy in the relationship over long periods of time
    • Couples should consider marriage therapy when the relationship has become unhappy or unfulfilled for one or both partners and the continuation of the relationship is threatened. Yet, it is important to note that you don’t have to wait for a relationship to deteriorate. The sooner you arrive to counseling, the greater is the benefit and the better the success.
More about Infidelity Counseling
Resources
  • After the affair by Janis Spring - Book
  • What Makes Love Last? How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal by John Gottman
  • Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love - by Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, and Susan L.
  • The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships - by John Gottman
  • Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples -  by Harville Hendrix


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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in New York City
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